THE PEARLS

CHILDREN ARE THE PICTURE OF OUR FUTURE "Every flowers of today are the seeds of yesterday" There are three times in life one can only spent once if opportuned: Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow. Every parent are yesterday of their children, children look back on how they've spent their life, good or bad. They practice what they learnt from yesterday, they say from what yesterday has given them. From these, you as a parent, can you wish the World should be like you? Everybody has their yesterday and every father and mother of today are the children of yesterday. Children are like a seed planted, watered, secured, monitored till it's harvest.        " Alani is a farmer who plant maize,        after planting it, he fenced it secured       from animals, he keeps watering day       and night. He keep monitoring it until            the maize keep germinating well       ...

LIFE'S JOURNEY Can I Journey to my destined Destination? Life is not so Dark that it becomes confusing; but Man's lack of perseverance makes it look confusing. The journey of Man full with Happenings that he never preconceived. only a Man who doesn't know more to life will recognise not,his JOURNEY in LIFE. Life full of Success and failure, Happiness and Depression, Melancholy and Vanity. No one smiles all through, no one Sad all through. Person who make it in life, is one who make the lasting impact, You are on your life's journey Cherish it..... Perish every steps of d way. No Duplicate of u on ur life's journey, it's nt how long but hw well, Life is nt measured with d tape of elongation, but measured with the weight of History. All days all night.... Record of d past keep reigning, nt by d length of Age but by d Mug of their Impact. The only impossible journey is d 1 u nver begin, The only path dat doesn't bring shame, facing one's challen...

Do Not Despise The Day Of Haughty Begining, Someday, It Will Worth It Some years ago, Chef Hilda Effiong Baci discover herself, make a specialization, start the race, make a consistency to bring out a result. Those stories has fuelled her Glory today. The Record of longest cooking hours for Four (4) days non stop by an individual in the Guinness Book of Record, no one knows her or ever heard the name "Hilda Baci" She hails from Akwa-Ibom state. She has a degree in Sociology from Madonna University, Okija. She owns a food brand in Lagos called “My Food by Hilda.” Hilda started this brand with her brother while still in school. History has bring out the hidden story of her name. Your name is your representative, plant the good name, u shall surely harvest it one day. "My purpose for this journey is to create awareness that we Nigerians have what it takes to contest in the global space. It is an awareness for the Nigerian youths to show that we are capable....

  DISAPPOINTMENT A cat who sees a rat but cannot kill it, A pocket that make one lose money, An examination that makes you fail, A child sent to school but can't present a certificate, A dismay that makes one's determination unrealistic define the word "DISAPPOINTMENT" No Disappointment can permanently debase a man, experience of failures doesn't make you down, Whoever learns from his failure, Whould later rise within it, Only with Determination. Lack of determination drag one in the Mud, It's only one who deceives himself, That won't have a Glorious Story. Only if you believe in yourself, you can surely cancel your insult with result. It's only through Courage, Determination & Prayer, That one can fulfill destiny in life, to stands within the Disappointment, so that one's portion is not marred  before one's eyes. Mistakes and failures are not the end, Just a border to your Destination. No matter the disappointment,  no matter t...

WHERE SHOULD YOUR FOCUS BE? "Focus On Your Goal, Don't Look In Any Direction But Ahead" Ask yourself "where did I put my focus?", is it on high priority or less?, Unless you focus, you can achieve. Focus is to focus on one's particular goal, it may be difficult but easy to learn. Having a "FOCUS" is like a Man at the crossroads without having a specific place to go, if he doesn't have a focus, every way becomes the way, unless he choose the way and take an action. Where should your focus be???, Having a dream doesn't mean you have focus, every winners are always a winner for their focus while fighting, every photographer set a Focus, likewise every gun shooter set a Focus, not all Fighters are Winners but all Winners are Fighters. Focus your attention on yourself & look not for fault in others. Focus on how to be better than you used to be and not better than others. Everytime, you focus on your attention outward, everytime ...

YOUR HABIT IS A SMOKE "Thought leads to Action, Action leads to Habit, Habit leads to Character, Character leads to Destiny", form the Destiny of rightful Taught. People are judged with bad or positive image, with what they've seen as a character. The photograph image isn't the only image that can describe you, your Habit is your physical and non physical appearance that can say more about you even in your absence. If you have positive Habit, your Destiny will be foreseen to choose. Habit is not built once but it started once, it's built by consistency, Habit is what is constantly do. A scholar once said: "It takes 21 days to form an Habit and 90 days to form a Lifestyle" It may seems confusing that not every Taught become once Habit/Character but it's vividly known that phycological, to a sensible man not an insane, no action could be done without a Taught. An hardened criminal doesn't started hardened, he started from his Taught and...

YOU ARE YOUR DESTINY A time has gone, when you were to choose your Destiny: For is it Success or Failure? that was when you were in the womb. This is fact that you're to choose your Destiny yourself. Man: the Architect Of His Fortune. Destiny can be negative or positive. Some  have the mindset that there are specific people to have positivity or negativity. No!!!, the fact is "You are what you've choose to be"  Self influence/believe is a power even before prayer will change you, your self influence is a power that can transform you,but always see that you're your Destiny and it's for you not others. until you change yourself nothing change in you.  "SURELY!, ALLAH IS WITH THE ASSUMPTION OF HIS SERVANT" Your Destiny is like a dusty mirror, when you stand before, You can't see yourself clearly. It's either you choose to clean it or leave it dusty.  Change for Positive, Change your mindset, your destiny lies in you, you don't go...

GAP: GO AGAINST POVERTY "Three Generation Can't be poor"...Yes but No" Yes!!!, Three Generation can't be poor if action is taken. No!!! Poverty can be the king for 20 generations and governed by it. Why? If action is not taken to change the history, as it is shall it continue. (I quote) Poverty says: P - Putting O - Others V - Vision  E - Embedded R - Rolling T - Till Y - Years With poverty you can't have property but if yes, it can be gifted or stoled. How many years will you live long to be gifted?. Poverty is a disease, Give a Gap from it, Poverty is a block road to achieve one's dream, Many are those with Dreams battling with Poverty. It drives into the mud of shame, if you live with poverty, you're flying by the seat of your pants. Poverty easily changes a believer unbeliever. It has no value to give. Take a lesson from the past generations, can you prefer to live like them?. Project your thinking, experiment it and choose a lifestyle...

SUCCESSFUL FAILURE "You may look down on some people being bad part of your Success story. Nevertheless, they're the reasons for your rage to win and Succeed. So far you win and have them in your story, they're not failures but "Successful Failures". This is the story of a young American guy_Roben Carlos who choose to chase his dream, he eventually give no room for distraction, he focuses ahead to achieve. His only problem was his father, he goes against him for choosing a different path for his Future "if you continue to go on your way, you will end up a bastard" Father couldn't go along with his Son to accomplish his chasing dream.                 "Those who laugh                   at you will one                        day laugh                            ...

TAKE A STEP, IT MAKES YOU GROW Small things turn big, Success don't come overnight, it takes gradual steps. Take a step today and move closer to your Success. The distance between your dream and achievement is taking a step, don't feel discouraged to make progress, no matter how difficult, slow or small, just take a step. "A dream without a step is unrealistic". No Success comes big, your dream may be big, but it starts small. The certain lesson in life is that "what isn't tried won't work", take your step right now, don't ignore the small thing. "Drop of water make an Ocean" Taking a step is from personal decision, even a child has to take a step for his crawling, walking, and talking. That's how they grow. No matter how small you start, dream big, taking a step will make you grow. "The most valuable asset is your potential, keep feeding it". A moon starts from crescent and become big anonymously with the peri...

LEAD BY GOOD EXAMPLE "The best Gift to gift others is to lay a good example and lead by it" Ask yourself "Can the World be filled with person like you" I mean people whose deed is right as you, act, talk, think and work like you. The question is uncentralized to a specific person, if everybody can be like you, if every leader can be like you, if every parent can be like you, can the world celebrate the kind of mind and attitude in you?, is there anything the world can imitate from you?, can you give Birth to a person like you? The truth is Sacred!!!, the answer is NO, consciousness will judge, your bad attitude will give you mindset. But if the answer is positive, you are on the track. If not, you need self motivating mindset. If you can't sniff the real you, you don't need any University to teach that, you need your self Teacher to give self improvement and lead by a good example and a role model. If you found out the fault in you, make a posi...

VALUE IS PRIDE Have you ever try to do as if you die to know what people will say or do after you???. Try it once, you will know if you have or gives Value. Value is your personal responsibility in delivering excellence. In your organization, community or Society, with your relatives, siblings, if you are worthy or useful, people around you will always need you and tasty of your presence. Some people are just a liability who don't have any importance or satisfaction, indeed, they don't add to one's ability. Money is not just valuable but because it gives Value to our life. That's why money has become a Pride. "Who don't have, don't give" if you don't have value you can't give Value. If you have value, the more value you get. If you have Value, people value. Leaders are not value just only because of their hierarchy but the act act of using their personal responsibility to deliver excellence and have positive impact in the life of ot...